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The Science of Happiness
and Well Being?

By Kevin Hogan


Page 6

Connections to be Found?

There is no real reported connection between "life satisfaction" and how much people hurt.

There is no real reported connection between "life satisfaction" and how well rested one is.

There is no real reported connection between how "intellectually engaged" one is and their reported "life satisfaction."

And you learn that People answer and average out to 7, using a 1 - 10 scale remarkably often.

I did have a thought come to mind, so I checked my hypothesis.

Does Beauty Affect Happiness and Well-Being?

People from 10 countries of the 155 surveyed averaged 8.0 or higher. That's 6%.

Does Beauty Affect Happiness and Well Being? I checked to see what percentage of Miss Universe winners came from those 6% of the countries.

Answer?

8/30 since 1980.

27%.

Probably a coincidence and just a passing thought...

Now we return to the original question we posed, "why do the survey?"

To help social policy in the UK.

But Rwanda reports 7.8 and the UK reports 7.4.

Clearly, surveys, based on everything you just read, are not the way to go for "helping" make decisions in Social Policy.

I suspect that less than 10% of UK residents would prefer living in any of the countries that score 8.0 or higher even with genes that favor Miss Universe winners.

I'd normally stop here and discuss this point because it is interesting ....but there is an even BIGGER AHA waiting around the corner that you want to see...next week.





Lifestorms: Erasing the 12 Obstacles to Achievement. Overcoming the Paradox of Love, Power, Money and Happiness
 
Why life so often brings you exactly what you don’t want…and how self sabotage hides around every corner. Some people have guessed at the seemingly bizarre nature of self sabotage. Guess no more. Self sabotage is very real in everyone’s life, completely devastating and 100% resolvable.

You’ve probably noticed that…

  • The more you argue for your point of view, the less you are heard.
  • That which you fear the most today are often best for you in the long run.
  • The more you need money, the harder it is to acquire.
  • The more you need that person the more they move away from you.
  • The more open you are about your vulnerability the more invulnerable you become.
  • The more you protest, the more you get what you protest against.

What you may not know is that we need at least six fundamental needs met to succeed in every aspect of life.

  1. Basic Safety
  2. Connection to Others
  3. Autonomy
  4. Self Esteem
  5. Self Expression
  6. Realistic Limits
If any of the six are not being met beginning at any point early in life, negative life patterns develop that soon shift from “clay” to “stone,” in the human mind. These negative life patterns actually helped us cope early in life with the areas of life when we didn’t have our fundamental human needs met…Later they become the core of self sabotage in every aspect of life…stopping us from getting what we want and literally making everything we don’t want…happen.

Recurring Patterns

Over the course of your life you have noticed some recurring patterns and themes. Just as the money finally appears, something breaks and you have to have it repaired. Just as you are becoming happy, something big goes wrong. Just as you are getting on track, you get derailed. Just as you get your promotion, you get laid off. You find the girl or guy of your dreams and then she slips away. The worst? You have the break of your life sitting in your lap and you blow the sale, the interview, the meeting. The chance of a lifetime (you think) and a lifestorm hits and it is all gone because of one or two wrong words at a critical moment or even an interrupting phone call. It’s gone. The girl, the money, the power, the job, the career, the happiness.

You’ve wanted to get your life on track and on purpose for so long. You’ve set your goals and have come up short. You learn the techniques and tools of communication and even influence but still it always seems to happen. You try and make all the changes that could ever be made in a lifetime and then…BOOM! Another lifestorm.

What causes all of this? Does God have some kind of perverted sense of humor that puts the candy in your hand until it comes to your mouth and then he makes it vanish?

No, not at all.

12 Specific Patterns

There are 12 specific life patterns that cause virtually all of these events to happen. 12 very predictable negative life paths that you can and will repeat and will repeat over and over until you break the pattern. Once you break the pattern and construct a new pattern in place of the old, you literally change your life (or that of your clients). The fewest number of negative life patterns I’ve seen anyone have are four. The most 11.

Could it be true that life is both this “complex and yet simple?” That if you just change a few patterns that everything will be OK?

Life is never easy. But the negative life patterns are impossible to overcome... yes impossible... without stopping the lifestorms that result from the 12 negative life patterns and then replacing them with specific new patterns. Every now and then someone makes something happen by accident. They know what these negative recurring patterns are and figure out a solution without having had the manual to do so. And it’s been through observing the people who figured it out that the everyone else can stop the lifestorms.

How Does it all Begin?

What are these lifestorms and how did they get here? How do they emerge from the patterns? Why do they rip your future away from us just as you are ready to make a quantum leap into your the future? How do you stop the madness and turn it all around?

Imagine that you are a child. Age 5. Your Mom and Dad divorce. Your father leaves. Forever. Your grandfather tries to take your father’s place and fill in “the gaps.” Shortly thereafter he dies. Your mother continues to work two jobs to support you, your brothers and your sisters. Just as you begin to like them… babysitters come and go over the next couple of years. Finally you reach adolescence and you have your first love.

She/he is perfect for you. She likes you. You hold on tight. You call them all the time. Several times per day. Everyone else that you ever loved has come and gone or just not been there. You’ve basically been on your own with no one stable in your life and have learned how tough life is by yourself. You’re going to make sure that this person doesn’t leave. But they do. They got constricted. They didn’t feel loved. They felt smothered. They sought advice from others and eventually followed it. You were that kind of person who didn’t trust others they told the one you loved. (Note: Many people want to be called all the time and have an extreme amount of attention, however most people who have this life pattern do not gravitate to those people.)

Finally, “not being able to breathe,” they leave you. You are crushed. Again someone has abandoned you. Everyone leaves. Parents, grandparents, babysitters…and now the love of your life. You have the life pattern of abandonment cut with a chisel into the stone of your mind. This pattern will repeat itself over and over again until you recognize it, break it and reshape a new pattern into your mind. Your mind knows no other way to act or how to deal with the feelings inside. Relationship after relationship is destined to go up in smoke until this abandonment pattern is resolved and repaired and remolded.

Break the Chains

And, this is not the only one of the 12 patterns that leads to relationship troubles. In fact, some patterns lead to chaos in relationships, jobs, the pursuit of happiness and all aspects of life. Without correcting these 12 patterns little else will help you break the chains that keep you from having the love you deserve.

In the case of the abandonment pattern, which you may or may not experience, you find that it also causes specific behaviors in the area of money. For example, there are two common patterns with money that stem from abandonment. The first is the workaholic who saves every penny possible so that no matter who leaves or what happens in life there will always be something to ride out the next lifestorm. The second is that the person simply repeats the pattern with money and spends themselves to bankruptcy on things that can’t possibly help their future. They buy more car than they need. They buy a house they can’t afford. They buy toys that do nothing but cost more money to maintain.

The Patterns are Predictable

Like the other 11 patterns, the pattern of abandonment has a plotted course that is predictable in all facets of life. It is etched in stone and it won’t change until it is sandblasted away. No amount of positive thinking will erase it. It will take far more than simple affirmations or a couple of visualizations. It takes a master plan that, while not difficult to implement, takes some time to reset itself after sandblasting away the old patterns.

Remember when you said something like, “My parents did that to me and I will never do that to anyone.” That’s one of the three ways you react/respond to negative life patterns. You polarize consciously or unconsciously from the things that were “done to you.” This could be a positive reaction but it probably isn’t optimal. Repeating the pattern of your parents/elders/caretakers is another common reaction/response, but again, it probably isn’t optimal. On the continuum of possible behaviors there is usually a point in the middle that is where you really will be able to overcome the negative patterns and reset new successful patterns that will stop self sabotage.

Perhaps you know someone who displays the characteristics of the abandonment life pattern. Perhaps it is you. Recognition of the pattern is the first step toward eliminating self sabotage and staying out of lifestorms. The next step is to identify how you would like to feel and behave instead of your current feelings and behaviors.

If you are feeling a paralyzing fear of abandonment…the feeling that this person too will leave you, what do you want them to feel and what do you want to feel? Both parts are important. You certainly don’t want them to feel smothered. You don’t want them to feel mistrusted as that mistrust will usually move the person to the behavior you mistrust them of. You want to feel secure and you want to behave in such a way that does not make yourself appear to not trust the one you care about. All of these pictures are the beginning of setting the new pattern. You must determine what you want to feel and how you want to behave. You want to determine what message you want to send the one you care about.

In the case of dealing with money with this life pattern, the same process is critical. What do you want to feel about money? What do you want to do with your money? Do you want to buy $5,000 toys and expensive cars or do you want to invest in your self and your future through education and investment? How will you benefit if you do these things by choice instead of repeating the self sabotaging behaviors of the past? How do you want to feel about money? What thoughts do you want to think about money?

Isolate the Trigger

Once the pattern has been identified and you recognize how you feel and what you think while you are “in the pattern” you then want to isolate the trigger. In the future you want this trigger to trigger the adaptive life pattern that you are going to construct in its place. You will need to do quite a bit of mental imagery and visualization along with triggering the new pattern. You will want to vividly experience the new pattern and the new thoughts and feelings of the new pattern.

You also will then need to cultivate a set of specific actions that will physically move you forward in the new life pattern. At the end of the day you will record your feelings, thoughts and actions that you had in response to the triggers that you experienced that day. Usually within 45 days you can have mostly eradicated the old self sabotaging behaviors and have installed the new patterns that move you in the direction of your goals, your dreams.

Of course there are 11 other life patterns in addition to that of abandonment. There are patterns that include a general mistrust of others, patterns that create behaviors where you put yourself second to everyone else. Other patterns emerge where you might believe you are entitled to things instead of deserving of them. All of these are examples of patterns that give birth to self-sabotage and are roadblocks that keep virtually everyone from achieving their dreams.

To discover which of the 12 patterns you have been the victim of and how to eliminate self sabotage in your life (or those of your clients) you can pick up the CD program and workbook, Lifestorms: Eliminating the 12 Patterns of Self Sabotage: Installing the Life Patterns that Overcome the Paradox of Love, Money and Happiness.

"Blast through Self-Sabotage for Breakthrough Results! Learn EXACTLY what is holding you back from achieving your dreams."

There is only one cause of failing to achieve.

Self Sabotage

With Lifestorms, you learn the 12 life patterns of self sabotage and destruction and are given blueprints for how to erase the old patterns and plug in new ones.

"If you have taken any self improvement courses and they have NOT worked for you, or you want to get MAXIMUM impact from them.....first unplug Self-Sabotage.
 
Kevin's program did that for me."

Sonya Lenzo, www.oldbooksmarket.com

What Will Happen When You Defuse the Sole Cause of Failure?

This program is 100% content and it is densely packed onto just 3 CD's! And, just as importantly, you now get the bonus live video presentation (on DVD) that builds upon the CD program. This exciting presentation was recorded before an enthusiastic audience of over 200 people and you will feel like you are right there with them as you watch.

What Do You Get in this exciting New Program?!:

  • 3 Digital Audio CDs: Lifestorms: Crushing Self-Sabotage Where It Starts
  • 25 Page Guide/Manual
  • 1 DVD: Lifestorms: The Patterns of Self-Sabotage
 
Lifestorms: Crushing Self-Sabotage Where It Starts

It happens to everyone. There are 12 (and only 12) nongenetic blueprints for self-sabotage at the unconscious level. That's it. I had 9 of them. No kidding. It took time to knock off each of these forms of self-sabotage. (A lot of time for 9!) I've never met anyone with less than 2 Lifestorms and it only takes one to take the life out of life, to take a would be success story into a lifelong destiny in the hamster wheel.

Each month, for myself, I review ALL 12 of the patterns and eliminate any residue of self-sabotage that exists. Because self-sabotage is nonconscious, no one is aware of it when it is engaged!
 
The benefit of being able to be in check is being in charge. When the unconscious mind is quelled then the conscious mind can move forward and achieve.

Delve deep into the nonconscious patterns with 3 audio CDS that help you discover why life often brings you exactly what you don't want...and how self-sabotage can hide around every corner.

Some people have guessed at the bizarre nature of self-sabotage. Few people understand it. Guess no more.
 
Self-sabotage is very real in everyone's life. It is completely devastating and 100% resolvable!
 
 
"I first gave Lifestorms a superficial listen, just curious what it was about, and at first I got nothing more out of it than a sense that it sounded cool. But, during the last 5 days, I have found the miracle! Something inside me clicked when I began to thoroughly study the material. I find myself interacting with the world as if I'm a new person. The best part is that this difference, this peace that I can not remember feeling before, this seems to be not from rational, "studied" or "memorized" knowledge, but a sense of freedom, a sense of a huge load falling off my shoulders, which I did not even know was there.
 
What I have not mastered yet, I now know I will because of Lifestorms (Wow! Finally!) My friend and I, after the first 5 minutes five days ago, ever since that moment we can barely stop ourselves from discussing everything and we are excited to make time every day to study this, and we dislike the moment when we have to stop because we can barely wait to see what else is there!"

Katerina Spillkova, San Bruno, CA

Let me ask you a few quick questions. What the answers reveal is self evident.

  • Do you ever know you should start on a project but don't?
  • Do you have projects that you have started but never finished?
  • Do you ever say the one wrong thing at the wrong time?
  • Have you ever had things going well in life only to have everything blow up in a day?
  • Have you tried to be so careful not to make a mistake that you were shocked when you made a truly costly one?
  • Have you ever promised yourself to stay out of trouble in some way only to find yourself in the same trouble or worse again?
  1. Now you can discover your own life patterns so you can eliminate unconscious self-sabotage immediately.
  2. This program will break the heavy chains that hold you from your dreams and your goals.
  3. This program is the first program ever made public that shows you how to identify specific self-sabotaging behaviors and negative life patterns.
  4. Best? You can ultimately erase those life patterns and rewrite new patterns into your brain that will allow you to meet your goals and experience fulfilling relationships.

Here is what you will learn:

  • How to identify which of the 12 negative life patterns you live.
  • How to find the triggers of the lifestorms that you just can't believe you continue to experience.
  • How to change the self-sabotage into success, happiness or something productive.
  • How to remove almost all obstacles between you and your goals.
  • How to understand those around you so you don't push their buttons.
  • How to predict your behavior and that of others.
  • How to actually achieve your goals so they are more than just a dream.
There is not one person anywhere who can't utilize every minute of this insightful information. These three CDs are packed with the most powerful tools for getting past life's roadblocks and personal sabotage ever imagined. The accompanying manual is a helpful guide and resource to assist you in your journey of self-discovery. Anyone can utilize this information and I personally guarantee that if you follow the instructions you will not experience self- sabotaging behavior anymore. Your goals become reality at speeds faster than you ever imagined.

Special Bonus: "Live" on DVD! Kevin Hogan reveals the patterns of self-sabotage to help you recognize the ones holding you back!

Lifestorms: The Patterns of Self-Sabotage

No one breaks their diet plan for the day at breakfast time..., or at lunchtime... or at dinner time.... No! The diet plan (for example) breaks down as conscious will is overcome by the nonconscious desire to eat. It's that simple. It happens at night. Usually late at night when most everyone is most vulnerable to the patterns that destroy everything you do. And obviously it's a lot more than just your eating patterns that are affected.
 
Your love relationships, your jobs, relationships with your co-workers and families - they are all affected. The way you handle money, your obsessions and addictions. How you spend your time - are you on time? Do you respect others? Do you show it? Or do you end up losing that relationship, that job, or that paycheck?

Now you have a video presentation filmed live before 200 people who came from around the world to watch Kevin reveal the specific patterns that cause these nonconscious programs to run and stay running. Without dramatic action, the nine patterns will not change in any meaningful way. Isolating and identifying them in your life and others will help you finally get what you want. This truly eye opening DVD is the introduction to the Lifestorms program.

Whether someone is trying to earn more money, lose weight, stop smoking, get off drugs, or get the girl (guy) of their dreams, this is the answer to identifying what is causing everything to go wrong.

You'll discover the deeply hidden roots of the most elusive forms of self sabotage.

  • You'll find out the manifestations that are seemingly benign in everyday life.
  • Most importantly you FINALLY learn what to do next!
This single video presentation will give you more insight to why people do what they do to screw themselves up than any other video on the planet.
 
And, it lays the groundwork for changing the patterns of sabotage into patterns of achievement, wealth, success and happiness.
 
You didn't install these patterns to yourself.
 
They were put there for you.
 
 
Kevin shows you how to find them and pull the plug.
 

"I was constantly stopping myself from completing projects and seemed to stop myself short from taking any actions that were outside my comfort zone. Everyone should either "Do" Lifestorms or something similar."

Steve Chambers


 

Lifestorms

Lifestorms are what happen when your Negative Life Patterns trigger Self-Sabotage to keep you 'safe'. This has been your undoing.
 
Now, however, you are learning the tools to take control.
 
 
 
Think about how some things keep recurring in your life, things that hold you back.
 
Now that you have an idea (from reading through this information) of where that Self-Sabotage comes from... Imagine what it will mean to you, and to all who come in contact with you, to never be slave to that reaction again. Freedom.
 
Next, seriously consider your future, both with and without this freedom.
 
How much is it worth to you to get clear of all the things you do to destroy your life. Think how many $1000s in income are left on the table. Think about what it will mean to the people who look up to you, who often model your patterns -- both good and bad.
 
Now, you've undoubtedly heard that it's possible to change habits and patterns that you’ve developed over twenty, thirty, forty plus years. And perhaps it is. But to really unplug them and install new patterns takes time.
 
"If you're serious about designing the life you love, I've made this as easy for you as possible." Kevin Hogan
 

Just listen to the 3 CDs, packed with everything you need to get total control over your Life Patterns, over a weekend. There's a manual with this product to guide you through the exercises. Then spend a few minutes every day for 45 days to keep tabs on the changes your engineering into your life. It's as simple as that.

Further, take a moment to compare that value to the cost of this simple plan for defeating Self-Sabotage forever.

Special Price For You

This program is so unique, I don't even know what to compare it to. My original price was $297, but I want this to be as widely available to those elite few who are willing to do what it takes to achieve their goals and dreams. While still upholding the value of the work. So, for now, this relatively hidden program is available to you for just $197

I can only imagine what it would have meant to me to have developed this program and gone through it myself ten years earlier.

It's time now to unplug these Negative Life Patterns td your procrastination, your 'status quo' prison.
 

In short, it's time to harness the power of your
nonconscious, and break the ties that hold its powers in check.

 

"Kevin Hogan Over Delivers"

"It just wouldn't be a Kevin Hogan product if I didn't overdeliver. Not only do I pack every product with the best, scientifically researched content available, I include supporting materials to make sure you get 10 times the value out of every product. This program is an exception because it's worth a lot more than 10 or 100 times in your life."

And because I want to make this easy for you to really hit the ground running on these cosmic personal changes, I've included a DVD which outlines the Negative Life patterns.

But there's more. This DVD was recorded live in front of 200 people, and gives you the 14 Components of Emotional Intelligence. This is huge. Not only will you now have the power to identify patterns of Self-Sabotage in yourself, you'll be able to ramp up your emotional intelligence to 'read' what's going on emotionally in others.
 

What Are Customers Saying?

"Lifestorms came exactly the right information at the right time for me. In summary, I'm the 50 year old 'unfulfilled potential' and as I've dug up the past patterns over the last few years, I've progressed. But your program made me recognize both patterns and origins I had overlooked. Now I'm becoming free."

John Shoemaker, Tallahassee, FL

 

"One of the things I've learned about psychology and the drives of the unconscious mind is not to immediately trust my strong emotional responses to a situation. In fact, quite often, when I am my most emotionally fraught over a situation, the very VOLUME of the emotion is now a SIGN to me to STOP and think, "heyyyyyyyyy, this is probably a Lifestorm....... I better go review Kevin's CD program and investigate this." Thank GOD I already have a CD program.

"When stuff comes up, you KNOW how it can come up quickly! Well, I don't have to wait weeks to discuss it with a therapist by which time it's gotten buried again. I know that when stuff comes up THAT is the best time to address it and work through it. Having Lifestorms enables me to do JUST THAT!!

"Thanks Kevin! This is a super power life-changing tool that I use again, again, and again. It's a great Life Best Practice for me to revisit it about once a quarter or every 6 months or so."


April Braswell, Menlo Park, CA, www.aprilbraswell.com

 

"Lifestorms has become the cornerstone of my personal development library. I'm a big fan of Think and Grow Rich; it's what got me started when I began thinking as an entrepreneur.

"But just listening to Lifestorms, even without doing the worksheets, has helped me move forward much faster than I could have. Not only in business, but also with family and friends. All that just from the insight I got from listening. Now I'm going back to uproot permanently each of my own negative life patterns."

Sheridan Randolph, Chattanooga, TN

 

It's time...

 

Was: $319.97
Just $197

Get your copy of Lifestorms now!

 

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Eden Prairie, MN 55346
(612) 616-0732

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