Be Confident of Your Greatness:
Being in Control of Your Life in Tough Times
Kevin Hogan, Psy.D.
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The Problem of Confrontation
The next problem that keeps individuals from mastery of the
self is the inability to confront.
Confrontation is uncomfortable and yet it is necessary to cause
change.
Without change you can ONLY have erosion.
The reason the Chinese can "take" American jobs for pennies on
the dollar is because the job value of those American jobs is
down to worthless. It requires personal mastery and confidence
in the self to move along and recognize when your true value is
going down.
In real terms, our value goes down daily unless we move it up faster
than inflation.
KEYPOINT: By constantly self educating and causing new and
exciting things to happen in life, you eliminate the need from
taking a job from an old Chinese woman by creating a life for
your self.
Confrontation doesn't have to be horrifying. People tend to
look at the word as if confrontation were a synonym for war or
destruction. I assure you that is what people think.
But the fact is that confrontation can be accomplished in most
cases with gentleness and kindness and still tell the employee or the
boss that you refuse to stagnate.
KEYPOINT: If you don't learn something new, all the time,
you become worthless.
Without confrontation, the marriage withers, the relationships die,
all that is bad that can happen...happens.
KEYPOINT: When people continuously evolve and intentionally request
change, new information, ask for what they want, the opposite
happens.
Instead of erosion you construct new realities. You
become in charge of your life and literally sculpt the landscape
of your future.
Replace Bad with Good
The next preclusion of personal mastery is stopping something
bad and not replacing it with something good.
For 15 or so years I've had at least a finger in the field of
utilizing the power of the mind and hypnosis in one way or
another. The people who succeed in getting the most from their
minds are not the people who stop smoking or stop eating so
much. They are the people who stop smoking, stop eating AND
START studying, building, doing something in place of the
destructive behaviors.
Where you create a void or vacuum, you can expect to see it
randomly filled.
That will typically cause destruction. The person loses weight
and then becomes addicted to drugs or something else because
no behavior was put in the void. Never leave a void.
Unfortunately filling a void requires effort. Not much, but it
is asking for effort. Energy.
The individual who was taught dependency as part of their culture
doesn't want to put forth effort, which is one reason the person
became overweight in the first place. When you fill the void with
constructive behaviors you can literally begin to shape your life
physically and emotionally...and intellectually ... and in the quality
of your life as a sum.
Greatness begins with eradicating old beliefs of dependency and
ridding the "feelings" of helplessness. Then taking the void and
vacuum that is generated and filling it with construction...building...
creation...design...and a desire to constantly change, to always
make everything around them better and to better themselves.
Do this and you will not only survive you will be great. For greatness
dwells in the power of the self.
I've identified 12 of the life patterns which cause us to trip up - and make the same mistakes again and again. To discover which of the 12 patterns you have been the victim of and how to eliminate self-sabotage in your life (or those of your clients) you can pick up the program below.
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by Kevin Hogan
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