How to Spot a Liar...The Lie
by Kevin Hogan
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Innocence Detection Clues
On the other hand if someone is on trial in the Kevin Hogan
Mind Court…there are some things that I look for to find them
"innocent".
1. Do they smile at you? First can or does the person give a genuine smile. It is HARD to give a real life smile when you are lying to someone.
Obviously the pathological liar can, but take out the
pathological's and you have a real actor who can genuinely smile
and lie at the same time.
2. Do they answer right away? Next I'm looking for "verbal immediacy." Does the person answer me quickly or normally? It's tough to lie and communicate quickly. The faster you talk, the less time there is to process
information. When you're lying it takes time to process
information to make sure the story "comes out right." This
doesn't mean that people who respond slowly are lying. It means
that coupled with other "innocence cues," I become more
convinced whether someone is telling the truth or lying to me.
How Accurate Are People at Detecting Lies?
Most people can't determine whether someone is lying or not
with any degree of accuracy. When crossing cultural lines, it's
even more difficult to accurately predict whether someone is
being truthful or not.
Sometimes experienced police officers show better than chance
accuracy in deception, but typically most people can't figure out
truth vs. lie more than 55% of the time.
The reason is that people are looking at the wrong things.
What Are the Traditional 'Signs' of Lying? And Are They Accurate?
Most people look at eye contact.
Fact is that eye contact isn't all that relevant in determining
most people are lying or telling the truth.
Another cue people traditionally look for is nervousness, and yes,
nervousness IS slightly correlated to lying but it's also
correlated to being scared and afraid of being accused of lying!
How About Some Bonus Deception Techniques?
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Kevin Hogan
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