The Achievement Factors: Part Two
Kevin Hogan
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What about criticism that's more personal in nature?
Comments can be more "personal" in nature.
When you are a public speaker who speaks before audiences all over the world about everything from sales, to negotiation to ethnic diversity to motivation, there are always people somewhere in that audience that had a very bad day. Maybe someone died in their family. Maybe they got yelled at by a spouse. Maybe they got a demotion. Who knows.
They are predictably inclined to vent.
They take their pain out on you.
It's part of playing football. If you don't want to ever get hit, then don't put a football uniform on. You are going to get hit.
Criticism disarms all of us, but it need not destroy us.
When someone has made the decision to start a business or make a change in their life or try new material with the audience, you KNOW it's going to happen.
The reality is that it is a leading cause of death and yet... most criticism is meaningless.
Criticism should never stop you in your tracks. NEVER allow criticism to de-motivate.
KEY POINT: Successful people use criticism as leverage to excel and do better, make a better product, improve service and make more money.
When people criticize in public, it can be particularly painful. But many people...ENOUGH people will almost always disagree with the person criticizing you.
Criticism must never, ever stand in between you and achievement.
If the fact of the communication is valid, then make the changes necessary. If it's not, feel free to appreciate their point of view and share yours and thank them for their feedback. It rarely makes sense to argue or debate your critic.
Once publicly stated, will they change their mind?
Of course not!
Next time more Achievement Factors including Stoking the Burning Fires of Passion! Stay Tuned....
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Kevin Hogan
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