7 Factors That Will Cause Them
to Want You Bad
By Kevin Hogan
Be the Expert
5. Body Language
Remembering some key concepts of body language can make it or break it in every social interaction.
Observe the other person.
- Are they leaned in?
- Have open posture?
- Smiling genuinely(when the smile extends up to the muscles around the eyes)?
- Making eye contact (about 45-60% of the time is most desirable, it's not a staring contest)?
These are all signs of interest.
If their belly button and feet are pointed away from you, they hold their head in their hands, or if they are closed off this is likely to be boredom and the body searching for escape. It may be time to give them some mercy and high-tail out of there. Be aware of the signals you're projecting. Are you approachable? Use the body language that you would like to see in someone interested in you.
Dressing to Impress
6. Dress to Impress for the Context
Seems like a no-brainer, but really. Staying groomed, clean, and wearing clothes that you feel confident wearing go far. If you feel confident, you will be perceived as confident. Feeling better about yourself will permeate to all aspects of your interactions ... your conversations, your body language, your attractiveness to others. Looking good and feeling good make things easier for you, so why neglect this one?
Women are magnetized to confidence. They are repelled by lack of confidence, incompetence and lack of self and other awareness.
What about women? Men have no unified preference toward confidence or lack of confidence. Different kinds of men view both ends of the spectrum as desirable in different situations.
How to Capture Their Attention ...
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