You want some thing or some stuff in life. You want to feel
something good, get rid of feeling something bad, and you want to
have meaning and significance. No one ever told you about breaking
orbit.
You generally can point to what those things are that you want
and have a hint of what would give your life meaning and significance.
You can generally write down those things (and we will in the
future).
You can generally devise a plan or strategy to move in the
direction of those "things."
Then things go wrong in various parts of life.
Some of it is your fault. Some is the fault of the person you
live with. Some of it is your boss's fault. Some of it was a random
act of "God." But the key fact is BAD STUFF or UNPLANNED STUFF,
HAPPENED.
Now you have COMPETING COMMITMENTS. The Daily Planner says to do
X but life has just thrown a Q (Someone decides to invite you to
their wedding) or a Z (someone dies, gets sick, the neighbor kids
egged your car, or you get sick perhaps) at you and you either have
to let X go, or you have to do it while navigating Q or Z.
You'll have to clean the car, get well, go to the wedding (or
not) AND get X done.
That causes OVERWHELM and STRESS.
That raises levels of anger, resentment, hostility, frustration
and generates feelings of blame, guilt, shame and all kinds of other
nonproductive …stuff.
You become difficult to work with/live with and your
relationships are compromised.
It now takes additional time to repair what your emotions AND
the emotions of others have mixed into the life cocktail. Now X
doesn't get done and neither does Q or Z.
You all but toss the Daily Planner aside and recognize that Time
Management in it's traditional sense, simply doesn't work. (And it
doesn't.)
You go through life day by day, then month by month and YEAR BY
YEAR missing out on number 1 and 2 above. There is very little
meaning, very little significance. There is a minimum of good
feelings and sadly plenty of stress and angst.
That's how your life works.
And I'd like to change that now…if it's OK with you…
What no one tells you, but you really do need is...momentum.
MOMENTUM
Remember those old pieces of footage from when NASA would launch an
Apollo rocket to the moon? That big Saturn rocket that carried the
teeny tiny lunar module on top…the one with Neil Armstrong, Buzz
Aldrin, Jim Collins….that Saturn V rocket was over 350 FEET tall.
I've stood next to the lunar module that came back from the moon and
it's about 10 feet high and it's hard to believe you could squish a
few people in that little thing.
Back to the Saturn V, though.
I am not a rocket scientist but these missions fascinated me.
Those huge rockets were actually built in three different parts
(stages). The first stage was the big one. It was the base. It was
what gave the initial burst of oomph to get the rocket and it's
passengers in the air.
That first stage was 138' tall.
It burned 4.4 MILLION POUNDS of fuel in just 150 SECONDS.
That took the rocket a grand total of 42 miles on it's 250,000 mile
trip to the moon.
42/250,000…the first 42 miles and it used 80% of the fuel for a
HALF MILLION mile trip!
Then the stage was ejected and it fell back to earth somewhere in an
ocean. The rocket was now flying at over 6,000 miles per hour.
Then stage two kicked in.
Stage two was 81' tall and used 1 MILLION POUNDS of fuel in just 6
minutes and pushed the rocket another 109 miles to a speed of 15,000
miles+ per hour.
So you have this 350+ foot rocket and in the first 9 MINUTES 96% of
all the FUEL was used to gain momentum were used for the first
109/250,000 of the mission TO the moon. (Remember the passengers had
to get back home too!)
Stage three was 58 feet tall and this stage was a little more
complex and I frankly don't get how it all worked but basically it
pushed the remainder of the rocket for about 6 MINUTES (as little as
2.5 minutes and as much as almost three hours) to get the rocket
really rocking around the earth so it could "slingshot" out of
earth's atmosphere and off to the moon, then it would bring the
passengers into orbit around the moon. (All of the science is beyond
my comprehension.)
This final stage used 250,000 pounds of fuel, or about 4% of the
total FUEL for 99.9% of the remainder of the trip there and back!
That boggles my mind to this day.
When I was a little kid, my grandparents lived in Huntsville, Alabama
and my brothers and myself would visit them in the summer time. One
of the "stages" of the rocket(s) was kept in Huntsville at a NASA
facility. We got a chance to see it and it triggered even further
fascination into the idea of MOMENTUM.
When it ALL Happens
EVERYTHING HAPPENS in the first few SECONDS or MINUTES.
If you break earth's gravitational pull, inertia, then you can
accomplish anything.
You have to get started, and CONTINUE. It's hard at first then you
break gravitational pull and the orbit of the STATUS QUO and you are
OFF and the rest is almost easy.
Momentum is SO important. If you dedicate 10 hours per day, 7 days
per week, to your project X for six weeks, it will be almost a sure
thing that you will succeed over the next 10 YEARS with Project X.
Your life will COMPLETELY change. You will be COMPLETELY
transformed. You will be CAPABLE of just about anything that is
humanly possible. But only a teeny tiny percentage of people will be
willing to be that uncomfortable for say, six weeks.
Because most people can't get past discomfort for any period longer
than moments, few people accomplish…anything. There is no meaning to
be had because there is no discomfort, there is no sense of
unfamiliarity.
Am I Making You Uncomfortable?
Meaning comes when something is not comfortable.
You can use 95% of the energy on a project and fail, exhausted with
the remaining third stage falling back to earth…or you can use the
96th% and break free from gravity…which is really just getting past
inertia and started and then it's not unfamiliar or uncomfortable
anymore. Then it's simply a wise use of time.
The great life lesson, perhaps the greatest and most important
lesson is knowing this in advance: The danger is that you WILL feel unrewarded for the energy you
expend on a project with no return.
People are used to getting a
paycheck every two weeks and no table top business will return a
dollar in the first two weeks but you'll work two or three times as
hard at the Coffee Table business as you are at work.
Your family will be upset with you because you are grumpy. You will
be tired and have nothing to show for your work. The TEMPTATION to
QUIT is OVERWHELMING ESPECIALLY IF YOU ARE DOING WHAT WORKS…
which is why it takes 5.5 MILLION POUNDS OF FUEL to go 109/250,000 miles
and only 0.2 MILLION POUNDS OF FUEL to go 249,881 miles....AND BACK!
No one knows that…except you.
Obviously this could be a relationship, a business, anything. All
of the hardest work on your part is early when everything is
unfamiliar and uncomfortable.
All of the smart work is the rest of the project.
A Daily Reminder
So isn't it worth planning your day, your life so that you are
constantly REMINDING YOUR SELF DAILY to CONTINUE if you are in the
first 109 miles AND challenging yourself to do things that you would
be proud of yourself for?
That is one of the fatal flaws of almost all (perhaps all) time
planning systems in existence.
Nothing is more important than the advance reminder that the
unfamiliar and uncomfortable is anticipated and prepared for. But no
matter how much preparation or planning you do it WILL BE
UNCOMFORTABLE & UNFAMILIAR.
You will feel like you want to jump back into your comfort zone.
Period.
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